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I made some off-hand comments on a post on 196 and didn't realize they'd be taken the wrong way. I made a few more comments to help clarify my idea but caught a blanket ban from blahaj.zone with no warning or message.

https://lemmy.world/modlog?page=1&actionType=All&userId=588349

I'm mortified :( It's never been my goal to make others feel bad online. I had a quibble with the wording on a meme and clumsily worded my idea of "Our differences shouldn't be minimized because they make us special" was seen as transphobia/TERF rhetoric.

But with no prior warnings or even a message from a mod to 'cool it', I got banned from the entire instance. I love these communities (feel free to look at my 2.5 years of comment/post history) and I would like to be able to continue to participate.

So, is there a formalized method of ban appeal beyond messaging mods? Their instance has like 12, so I don't want to spam them and have it seen as harassment.

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[–] Triumph@fedia.io 4 points 1 week ago (17 children)

Yeah, blahaj, don't bother. There's an elevated amount of odd positions that are popular there, and don't you dare question them.

[–] SharkAttak@kbin.melroy.org 12 points 1 week ago (15 children)

Note to self: never comment on blahaj

[–] curbstickle@anarchist.nexus -5 points 1 week ago (13 children)

You could just not be shitty and it wouldn't be a problem to post on blahaj at all.

[–] SharkAttak@kbin.melroy.org 1 points 4 days ago

Or I could be perceived as shitty even if I don't intend to, and get blasted... Better safe than sorry.

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