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A "Showerthought" is a simple term used to describe the thoughts that pop into your head while you're doing everyday things like taking a shower, driving, or just daydreaming. The most popular seem to be lighthearted clever little truths, hidden in daily life.

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"Fans"who don’t want Bruce Wayne to have "normal" friends or see Peter Parker financially stable don't want to see these character grow (sopuli.xyz)
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I made a post on the Batman subreddit saying I would like to see a Batman story where Batman has a civilian supporting cast similar to Peter Parker or Matt Murdock. Bruce Wayne had friends as a kid and went to exclusive private schools. I find it hard to believe his friends didn’t sympathize with him. I think it would be cool if during Batman’s first year he’s obsessed and only wants to be Batman and doesn’t care about being Bruce Wayne, but later on comes to realize he actually wants his friends around and comes to accept being ‘Bruce Wayne.’ That post got downvoted.

Bruce had a childhood friend who came from a wealthy family named Tommy Elliot. Another one was Mallory Maxon. It would be cool if Bruce opened up to Tommy or Mallory or any of his rich friends or a rich love interest. Bruce Wayne doesn’t have to be this statue with no friends who’s overly obsessed with being Batman. Daredevil and even Arrow (which is basically just a Batman show) prove the main character can do both.

Same with Spider-Man. He doesn’t have to constantly be poor and keep getting beat down time after time. With how smart Peter Parker is, it makes no sense for him to always be broke. Dude could get any job he truly wants. And this man is personal friends with at least four billionaires. I find it hard to believe Harry, Tony, Reed, or Danny wouldn’t say, ‘Dude, you can get a part-time job working for me and I’ll give you 200k a year,’ and the best part is since they know who he is, they can give him time off to do Spider-Man stuff.

But people don’t want to see these characters grow or be normal. They want Batman to remain a friendless statue and have Spider-Man keep taking constant Ls.

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[–] invertedspear@lemmy.zip 3 points 14 hours ago

One thing to remember is that Batman is crazy. He doesn’t consider himself Bruce Wayne, he considers Bruce a mask he wears. He is Batman. Superman calls him Bruce to try to keep him grounded, but he’s already lost it. For Bruce to develop and have friends and a personal life, he has to first get past his need to be Batman. His psychosis keeps him from moving forward.

Spiderman totally deserves a break though. That kid puts himself through hell out of guilt. But for him to stop torturing himself he has to forgive his mistakes and guilt over Ben. He can still be Spiderman after that, so I’m all for it.