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Remember, if anyone is ever attracted to you, they must be fetishising you!
The more your relationships are about appearance, the less you can know about yourself and them since you are certain to not chase a partner to be a trophy among other effects
It's not about being a "trophy". I just want to be with someone that I'm physically attracted to, and who is physically attracted to me. I don't think that's unreasonable. Obviously we need to have compatible personalities/interests beyond that but it is a big factor.
You choose how big. Once you are mature or old, you realise how little it means
You don't choose that. It's different for everybody.
That's like saying people choose whether or not to be gay or bi versus being straight.
If you aren't attractive or attracted to someone the couple will not be happy. That's what you're deciding for others. Condemning some to be alone forever.
If you don't want to, you don't need to focus on that. You can also adjust how much. Personally I get energy from being attracted and attractive, but I don't control what others choose.
I don't even know what point you're trying to make. Not everybody is going to be attractive to every other person.
My gf and I are both attracted to each other, but there's many people (millions, even) who would find neither of us attractive. Those people aren't obligated to potentially date us just because it might make us sad that they're not attracted to us.
In these days it's often hard for Americans to understand. Forcing, or saying others cannot or should not do x, is completely unnecessary when it's something they do in private. I know you have trouble with the arguments and that's because there is no existing valid argument for why you should not choose yourself how much appearance means to you. you. Not others. What is your preference may not be others, and it's possible (believe it or not) to allow others to be off doing their preference. You don't have to kill kids or anything in schools before you act, you can already right now choose, but only for you! Mind you! Only for you, and not for another. You may not choose how much another wants that or force others to want to have your marriage, or exit theirs. It can be confusing but it is possible to do this without slaughtering children and deporting workers that don't have your skincolor. You can do it
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Friend, you have been the one arguing against this notion. This is why you're being so nonsensical.
Further, bringing nationality into it is weird, and your condescension is uncalled for. If you can't even stick to a coherent message, let alone attempting to do so without being rude, then you're not worth interacting with.
Nope, I said my pref, your line of argument is yours and everyone. Why are you backtracking that now? Impossible to argue with something like that. I can keep to a message and that is that you said everyone have to do as you like. I pointed out that it is a choice. It continues like this. And nowadays I am so worried about fucking Americans because you are half of you sycophant fanatics that are on the verge of starting to kill people. You can very easily be one of the emotionally wounded berserkers that are marching along in lockstep with the mass psychosis around your senile god emperor. It's scary. I think you understand anyway and are just too ego to take responsibility for anything, just like your leader. Sorry. It's fucking scary. You seem to joke but when the killings begin it will not be fun over there either