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Self-inflicted wound.

She plays Candy Crush and feels that calling herself a "gamer" for it amounts to stolen valor.

Maybe she's right, maybe she isn't. I'm a woodworker, and I'd built several bookshelves, tables, shop fixtures and cutting boards before I felt comfortable wearing the rank. I would insist I was an amateur or a beginner. It was my little porch table that is made with genuine mortise and tenons that I felt I'd earned it.

And that's without the gender politics of it. Here I'm a man doing traditionally masculine things. I'm not a man taking up knitting or a woman taking up gaming.