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I think it's more they want a proof that they aren't bragging or crazy when they do feel like they are surrounded by morons. Not sure about the need to show off though. That seems silly. We got both kids tested at the behest of the school so it's an officially recognized test (WPPSI-IV) but I didn't need a test to tell me I have clever kids. Nor do the teachers after about five minutes chatting with them, usually. But it was useful to get them sorted in the upper class when there was a doubt. Also it was nice to have some fine grained detail and an actual statistical value of just how different they are. Something I try to keep in mind when dealing with them on the daily. In France we use the term "High Intellectual Potential" and that's really all it is : potential. It's up to me not to waste it and help them flourish now. So far the teachers also see it and the best they can to also help them flourish but clearly the public school system is barely equipped to grow that potential when there are so many kids in difficulty. A single "social case" kid in a class can fuck things up for everybody around them, it's a fucking nightmare...
Every parent thinks their child is super smart and often argues with teachers over it.
Teachers will think of you as 'those' parents who they have to pretend your child is gifted around. I'm not sure if you're implying you think teachers can tell if your children are super smart after five minutes of chatting with them, but, trust me, they can't, and don't.
You sound charming. Can't you afford to send them to a reputable private school? Oh, That's too bad. Sounds like you're wasting the kids' "potential"
A single test is BS. A waste of time. A current score is not predictive of future ability and is pretty much worthless. I can tell you that your teachers ignore the score (regardless of what they tell you to your face), even though they seem to have recommended it - presumably they get a kickback from the company that tests the child for the referral (if the school did recommend it, that reveals more about your school than you realise). Additionally, the test has specific weaknesses. But hey, you get to come on Lemmy and post how "smart" your children are.
My reply didn't overlook test justifications, nor does your explanation actually justify IQ tests. Shame.