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[–] bleistift2@sopuli.xyz 32 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (8 children)

To paraphrase a German comedian (I’m not even sure who said it).

Women, if you want a man, don’t be subtle. Stop with the playing with your hair and the dreamy looks. Men are stupid. They don’t pick up on that. If you want him, go to him, and say “You, me, sex!”

(Slightly adapted to fit the medium text better.)

[–] RedditRefugee69@lemmynsfw.com 11 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I hate that this is framed as men being stupid when in reality if a man is ignoring a hint it's because he'd rather be wrong about it not being a hint than wrong about it being a hint and make an unwanted advance.

[–] Tippon@lemmy.dbzer0.com 13 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Nope, there's a decent number of us who can completely miss any type of hint, and need to be told explicitly that someone's into us.

Source: It's me, I'm one of those men.

[–] CrazyLikeGollum@lemmy.world 10 points 1 day ago (1 children)

It can both of these things. I can completely miss most hints thrown my way and still be concerned about misreading possible hints.

In some things a lack of subtlety is a virtue. In this case, "you, me, sex" is not clear enough. Please specify a time and location as well.

[–] Tippon@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 1 day ago

Wait, it doesn't mean right here, right now? Maybe that's why I'm banned from the supermarket 🤔

Or, as I've said 1000 times before and will say 1000 times again...

Playing hard to get is often indistinguishable from not interested.

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