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I remeber 2006 I was in the 6th grade, all the world cup songs, chilling at my local lake with friends, ... maybe it was just because I was a young kid.

But now I think a lot about the 2000s.

I was able to download and Listen to All Songs of 60s, 70s, 80s, and the 2000s had great songs too.

Like Linken Park with Breaking a Habit or Red Hot Chili Peppers with Snow.

It was also a time I spent a long time in Azeroth (WoW) but also a lot of time in real life with friends.

Right now at this moment my job is awesome, I earn enough money, have a wife,... but I cant recreate the Summers of 2000s.

I said it in 2015 those were the best days and now a decade later I still say it. The 2016s to 2019s were also great. But not like 2005 to 2009. Something about those years that gives me a cozy Feeling.

Sonetimes I think Corona ruined everything. Nothing is back to how it was pre 2020. People are so confused, lie and cant tell the difference between fake news and Real news, all only on the phones.

This feels like Im living in a Shell that is empty now. And all this being said my Life SHOULD now be better than in 2006. I have a great job, money, more free time... but dunno.

Anyone else feel this?

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[–] LainTrain@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (4 children)

Nah, my life is massively better in every way and seems to have no signs of stopping. I was a broke student with an uncertain future, reliant on an increasingly hostile family back home just for a chance at a future, but I pretty much just expected to die in the next 6 months ever since I turned 18.

Now thanks to COVID I was able to graduate, get a masters, get a visa sponsored job, WFH, be promoted, transition fully, including get SRS through public healthcare which seemed like a pipedream to me before, got my ADHD medicated, saved enough money to move to a better city renting in a nice 1 bed flat all to myself, am food secure and can even afford some nice things once in a while, I got a gf I love and am surrounded by friends. I spend my free time pursuing my many hobbies and passions such as making music, reading history, politics and philosophical works and practicing pentesting.

There is no denying that for all intents and purposes we live in hell, every ideal I've ever had for the world, every value philosophical and political has been trumpled, moved away from or reduced to absurdity by the elite capitalists and their government and media lapdogs and I have no real faith in much of anything anymore.

I will never own a home, and I have no idea how or if I'll be able to retire in any way, and I have no real safety net, I'm one bad day away from homelessness and starvation and death and there's no real way to fix that, and for every day I'm okay, I'm forced to watch others suffer the fate I so narrowly avoided through much luck and a sprinkle of resilience.

And yeah I'm sometimes nostalgic at times for some eras of memes and media, but I certainly would be an ignorant fool to in any way claim my life is worse now than ever before.

I'm living very literally what I used to not even let myself dream of before, because I thought it'd be too cruel to inevitably be let down by reality.

[–] Grogon@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Well I own a home which is direct neighbour to a loud Church. Its unsellable and cant move away til its sold so there is my sind...

[–] LainTrain@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I'm sure amidst the crazy house prices you can borrow enough against any paid-off home for a downpayment on somewhere else or money on anything you want. Idk how it works in the US which you seem to be from.

[–] Grogon@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] LainTrain@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 6 days ago

That should still apply then.

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