We do that but sit next to each other and you know, talk
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Why talk when you both are already looking at your phones?
I really try to make my relationship such that I would never have to directly interact with my partner, but there's still some work to be done 😔
I suggest a zoom call with your partner to sort it out (cameras off, of course)
I mean, why waste the limited time I have a day with my SO by scrolling together through an endless list of movies and shows. Both of us have the attention span of a beagle, so sporadically swiping through a list during the workday would actually be preferable.
For me it wouldn't be about avoiding conflict, just a way to remember something that I would otherwise forget as soon as we started looking for something to watch.
What the actual fuck?
Where is my pitchfork?
See, my wife and I will go back and forth, checking various streaming services and vetoing each other's picks for the full duration of movie night.
Now when she asks what I want to watch, my first reply is always, "Literally anything except the Netflix menu."
Also it'd automatically add the movie to your radarr instance
🏴☠️
thanks for introducing me to radarr
Make sure to also VPN
Wait until you find Sonarr and the rest of the *arrs
I think my life just became full
No that's just your hard drive
ouch this hurts
It's been a while since I've sailed the high seas. How difficult is it to get subtitle tracks these days? I've gotten used to having them on everything.
Most of the stuff I rip have the subtitles in the file (mkv ftw). But there's also bazarr
Yes and a genre filter, please.
The app "Queue" does this, as well as the other 50 mentioned in this thread
Can it not just be for movies, but for food places as well?
We made a backup - a taqueria. If 5 options get axed we have tacos. No regrets!
This would never work. We enjoy a lot of the same stuff, but sometimes we have to justify certain movies to each other. Like "The Cabin in the Woods". She thought it was classic horror and would never swipe right of her own volition. Likewise, you think I woulda swept right on "Twilight"? OF CORSE I WOULD! Swipe right on every movie I see cuz I love her and we watch whatever she wants.
But this way we never watch my movies
Needs a third option then. Swipe right for "would watch", left for "wouldn't watch", but also swipe up for "I strongly endorse and believe you'd enjoy it if you give it a chance".
Maybe also a fourth. Swipe down for "absolutely not, I know you really love this movie but I just can't watch more Jason Statham."
Double tap for "I see everything with Jason Statham just on principle"
One person picks three (movies, restaurants, events, etc.) that they would be happy with.
The other person selects one out of the three.
Alternate.
We do one more layer, so it's called 5-3-1.
Person A picks five options.
Person B eliminates two of them.
Person A selects one of the three remaining.
We alternate who gets to pick the five.
The problem is the catalog is functionally infinite. How can you feel like you're making a good decision if you don't exhaust a category?
You don't have to make a good decision. It's 20-90 minutes of your life, not a fucking career.
Wait... You actually watch the movie? I thought it was just background noise for making out and fucking.
I am so fucking glad I did family movie nights wrong
I wonder what op does when they listen to music then.
The same as a movie, except you do it to the beat. 😌
What if you just let the AI you've been training for free all this time match you automatically? It knows what you watch, what you like on your Facebook and Instagram, it reads your DMs and text messages, it even knows what ads you're likely to pause the longest on before you scroll past. It knows you better than you know yourself.
hehe think Ill pass
this actually sounds like a really good idea to vibe code
I'm sorry you lost me at the coupling of vibe coding and human connection. I couldn't quite see the join.
Vibe coding is useful for bashing out simple, stupid ideas that have been done millions of times before. APIs to do SOMETHING with a movie database has been done millions of times before. Tinderlike swiping interfaces have been done millions of times before.
There isn't going to be much nuance to creating this software. so it's something that can be fairly easy for an AI to churn out the code for, and get the functionality working and give to people.
Not sure where you got human connection or whatever from this.
Human connection is actually the basic premise of the original post. I'm just being salty because I resent having to constantly fix the shite that lazy cunts vibe code, but yes, it's not an obvious join and I'd probably had a drink
eh, no worries, I'm sure you're sick of idiots using the wrong tool for the wrong job and dealing with the consequences, so your attitude was understandable. Obviously vibe coding isn't a silver bullet, but from my perspective this seemed like a good use case.