I have been through some intense therapy. I had something set up to strangle myself several times early on.
But my son's life was worse already, and if he lost me it would be worst possible outcome.
There is no amount of therapy, advice, support, anything out there to help with infidelity. Constant chest pains the docs can't find anything wrong with, tension headaches unrelieved by medicine and professional massage.
It's unbearable. You question your sanity. You goals, your values. But I had to be there for my son. I lost 100lbs. I got my chestersol controlled. I'm losing the house, time and money. But I have a revenge body now. And I feel great. I still cry. But this study is pretty damn accurate.