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[–] stickly@lemmy.world 3 points 3 hours ago

In some sense, yes and that's part of the problem. Not sure if you often talk to anyone <25 years old, but as you get older it becomes pretty obvious that they're just not mentally or emotionally mature. It's not their fault, the human physiology makes early life an extended formative period. They're generally not good with nuance or introspection, that's just how it is.

Take a girl and a boy into Twitter in the 2010s and they're going to a wide array of diverse and complex viewpoints. The girl is immersed in #MeToo-style solidarity and relatively simple to digest slogans (pregnancy is scary and the left is pro choice, the left is pushing against toxic beauty culture, the left wants me educated and more than a housewife, etc...).

None of can really resonate the same with the boy. In fact, hyperbolic or nuanced slogans fly right over his undeveloped frontal lobe or even backfire (all men are bastards?, black lives matter?, who got cancelled for what?, no means no![usually?], etc...). That doesn't force him into being a shitty conservative adult, but it definitely affects his politics in the same way that too-early exposure to porn affects someone's adult sexual attitudes.

People scoff at the concept of treating men with "kid gloves", but forget that the public internet includes kids. Dismantling the patriarchy is messy and difficult stuff, doing that in front of a generation of impressionable boys is how you end up with the graphs in the article. We're just now seeing the first social media age repurcussions, but now imagine some younger voters where MAGA politics is the status quo...