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[–] GalacticHero@lemmy.world 232 points 2 days ago (7 children)

While this doesn’t directly affect me, I really hate that a payment processor I don’t even use can dictate what is and is not acceptable speech.

[–] Zagorath@aussie.zone 91 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I can't imagine buying a porn game on Steam. And even if I did, incest holds no interest to me.

Even so, I absolutely fucking hate this crap. Payment processors are killing off content despite the producers and consumers of the content being completely fine with it. This should be a Net Neutrality issue. But I'm not seeing anywhere near the same outrage over it that there was over ISPs doing the exact same thing.

[–] HubertManne@piefed.social 21 points 2 days ago (3 children)

I remember someone had a reply on something that touched on incest porn and they where like. I see it all the time but when you put in blond big boobed blowjob and the title is mom son its like who cares or such. So much porn seems to just get relabeled when it comes to incest porn. This is now a brother and sister or mom/son or father/daughter. It is wierd how that seemed to just blow up in popularity. I mean I think its been that way for a few years but I swear I did not see so much like pre covid.

[–] Zagorath@aussie.zone 11 points 2 days ago (1 children)

My theory is that it's because people who are into it must be really into it, but people who aren't into it are very good at ignoring the fact that it's titled like that or that there might be one or two throwaway lines implying it (especially when it's "step"). So there's an incentive for uploaders to title things like that and for creators to add a little nod in the video towards it (without adding too much incest roleplay) because it draws in a large audience and actively turns away very few.

[–] jj4211@lemmy.world 6 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Well if you are having to watch on mute anyway, not like you even know the plot...

Of course you miss out on the narrative masterpiece of things like lemon stealing whores ..

[–] swelter_spark@reddthat.com 6 points 2 days ago

It's seemed pretty popular to me since basically the beginning of the internet.

[–] SkunkWorkz@lemmy.world 1 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I think it has blown up in popularity because many more people nowadays have divorced parents and grew up in a blended family. I bet many guys have fantasized about fucking their step mom or older step sister and I bet even dads have fantasized about fucking the oldest step daughter who was already an adult when he married her mother.

[–] echodot@feddit.uk 0 points 2 days ago (1 children)

And what about all the people who don't live in Alabama trailer parks? Or they're just so many of them that they provide an industry all on their own.

[–] SkunkWorkz@lemmy.world 4 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

You do realize that step family aren’t blood relatives right? A horny teenager who met his older step sister for the first time when he was 15 and she 17 doesn’t have a familial bond with her, it’s just another hot girl for him. So nothing Alabama about that.

[–] unexposedhazard@discuss.tchncs.de 68 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (3 children)

Why do they even get to know which games people buy? It should just show them "Steam purchase" and nothing else.

[–] lath@piefed.social 23 points 2 days ago (3 children)

Because many "players" are refunding after a fap, which is logged and reviewed. Also, suspicious or new transactions are often flagged and reviewed. So a lot of such side content is being pushed in front of the banks and payment processors by horny clients who unwittingly expose their kinks.

[–] spankmonkey@lemmy.world 20 points 2 days ago

If a large number of refunds came from a single source it seems like Steam would be the one addressing the issue, not payment processors.

[–] deranger@sh.itjust.works 9 points 2 days ago

The post nut clarity of realizing that buying that porn game was not such a great idea

[–] logicbomb@lemmy.world 8 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Seem like an easy solution would be to have certain transactions be nonrefundable.

I say easy, but I guess it would involve quite a bit of software changes, and then you'd also have to deal with angry customers who ignored numerous warnings that a purchase would be final.

[–] pulsewidth@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago

That's even less consumer friendly. If you purchase a game and it turns out to be shovelware that barely works and has a bunch of gamed reviews on the store page? Oh too bad sap, you got conned this is non-refundable.

Consumers had to fight for games that do refundable, I don't think we should be quick to consider loopholes.

[–] SkunkWorkz@lemmy.world 5 points 2 days ago

Those payment processors can just look at the store and see that it sells smut. Those payment processors do their own due diligence.

[–] slazer2au@lemmy.world 4 points 2 days ago

Money laundering and anti terrorism laws would be my guess.

[–] catalyst@lemmy.world 12 points 2 days ago

Agreed, this shit sucks. The credit card companies hold far too much power over what is considered viable commerce.

[–] aeternum@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 2 days ago (1 children)
[–] GalacticHero@lemmy.world 31 points 2 days ago

Yeah, but I like paying people to make things, and it’s not their fault. This will ultimately mean less of these things get made. For incest games, that’s no great loss, but I hate the precedent.

[–] ivanafterall@lemmy.world 4 points 2 days ago (1 children)

This doesn't directly affect me, either, but does anyone know if it applies to all of the Interactive Sex - Futanari Incest DLC, too!? For Episodes 1-4!? Like, if any of my friends have large amounts of FutaCoinz from years of Season Passes, I wonder if they'll still be able to spend them...?

[–] jj4211@lemmy.world 5 points 2 days ago

I don't know if I want to try to find out if that is satire or actual things...

[–] Simulation6@sopuli.xyz 1 points 2 days ago

Wonder where they stand on The Witcher I?

[–] iAmTheTot@sh.itjust.works 0 points 2 days ago (5 children)

Kind of cuts both ways though, doesn't it? The reverse of this argument is saying that the payment processors must work with Valve no matter what they host. Agree it disagree with them, but don't the payment processors get a say in what they do or do not want to process?

[–] spankmonkey@lemmy.world 28 points 2 days ago

No, they should have zero say because they have weaseled themselves into a position that is the equivalent of a utility or whatever ISP are classified as. Their only involvement is whether they complete transactions between parties in a legal way.

[–] CarbonIceDragon@pawb.social 23 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I mean, when your service is fundamental enough to the economy, and centralized enough to make just going to an alternative a major hassle, if an alternative without a similar policy even exists, then why should they get that say? The power to effectively ban the sale of certain types of thing, or force media platforms to censor certain types of content, is the sort of power we generally reserve for governments, not private entities that can do whatever they want. Honestly they're important enough these days that they should basically be treated like some sort of public utility in my view.

[–] SleveMcDichael@programming.dev 17 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Agree it disagree with them, but don’t the payment processors get a say in what they do or do not want to process?

Absolutely not. Power companies don't get a say in what the power they supply their users with is used for, same for water companies and even ISPs. If they really, really want to enforce rules on what they will and will not process payments for, they can accept legal responsibility when they process a payment on a gun someone uses to shoot up a school or what have you. But they cant have it both ways.

[–] Stovetop@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago

In the US at least, they actually do, in many cases. If you are in a drought region, your water utilities can be shut off if you're wasting it all on watering a lawn or filling a swimming pool, for example. ISPs cut people off all the time for torrenting, sometimes even if it's not pirated content (though it was ruled not long ago that ISPs aren't utilities anyways).

[–] iAmTheTot@sh.itjust.works -3 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Power and water are public utilities (as is internet, in some parts of the world but not all). Payment processing is not. If you want to argue that it should be, we'd likely agree.

[–] SleveMcDichael@programming.dev 18 points 2 days ago

They may not be de jure be public utilities but they are de facto public utilities. It is essentially impossible to live in society without them, and outside their collusionist cabal there are no real alternatives.

[–] GalacticHero@lemmy.world 8 points 2 days ago

Sure, but there are so few payment processors that even a single one refusing to do business with you can be a real problem for a business. Even Valve, a big and influential company, has little choice but to capitulate to PayPal. Visa and Mastercard have even more power.

There are too many problems with crypto for it to be a viable alternative, but there’s no good way for me to pay a business (when cash isn’t an option) that doesn’t require the involvement of a third party. Limited competition means those third parties have too much power. I don’t know what it is, but there has to be a solution for that.

[–] prole@lemmy.blahaj.zone -1 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (2 children)

Lol what? They're being forced to do business with Valve?

Yeah, nah... They could just not process payments for them anymore. Problem solved.

[–] Stovetop@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

They're saying that is the reverse argument, not the state of things today. As in, the only solution to the above would be to force payment processors to do business with anyone and everyone.

[–] iAmTheTot@sh.itjust.works 1 points 2 days ago

But that's the entire crux of this situation. They are threatening to do that, and people are upset about that.